I remember when I got my first dog.

I mean, I had dogs growing up, but Koby was MY first dog. I got him when I was in college, and he completely turned my world upside down.

A rescue with a semi-known background, my cute roly-poly dog was reactive with other dogs and displayed aggression towards people he didn’t know. And needless to say, for a total rainbows-and-butterflies-love-is-all-you-need-to-save-the-world kinda girl, while I loved him to death, Koby was a challenge.

One of the things that I distinctly remember about my daily life with Koby was my attitude towards exercise.

The dog experts told me…

  • You have to walk your dog every day
  • A tired dog is a good dog
  • If he’s a challenge on walks, wear him out first by throwing the ball or (my biggest pet peeve) run him out on a treadmill (thanks Cesar Milan for that gem)
  • Make him heel! He needs a job

And let me tell you, those instructions were burned into my head.

So much so in fact, that I believed if I didn’t follow them to a “T” I was a horrible dog owner. I mean, what kind of dog owner doesn’t walk their dog? It’s just what you do…

When I think back to those times, and those beliefs (that really limited my relationship with Koby), I just shake my head…

Hindsight is 20/20, right?

If you have a dog who struggles with reactivity, and you’ve heard the same, here’s the honest truth…

  • You don’t have to walk your dog every day
  • A tired dog is a tired dog – that’s it. By physically exhausting your dog, you’ve solved nothing
  • Ball play is unproductive for dogs with reactivity
  • The only thing running on a treadmill does is build endurance
  • Dogs don’t need a job – they need to learn to cope

Here’s the thing. There are so many misconceptions floating around when it comes to dog ownership. And a lot of them are keeping well-intentioned dog owners who perhaps are struggling with things like reactivity in a perpetual loop of bad behavior.

Think of this scenario…

An owner has a reactive dog. They walk him daily as instructed. He has bouts of reactivity on EVERY walk. The owner and the dog are always left feeling defeated.

How did that walk help anyone?

Now, if you have a dog with reactivity, this isn’t a free pass to totally stop exercising your dog.

As your dog’s owner, it’s critical that you provide them with plenty of physical and mental stimulation.

That said, there are many activities that are far more productive for dogs suffering from reactivity. You’ve just got to get creative.

Here are just a few…

  1. Nosework – dog riffs ground in nose work activity used by dog trainer, Meagan Karnes for reactive dogs.One of the most beneficial activities for dogs suffering from reactivity is to teach them to use their noses. Sniffing is primal, and it helps calm dogs that might be a little stressed out. And the best part – you don’t have to go to a formal group class to do it. There are plenty of nosework games you can play at home (just google “nosework games for dogs” and you’ll find loads of resources). They are super simple, super fun, and they’ll activate a part of your dog’s brain that needs a little TLC.
  2. Hiking – If it’s possible to get yourself and your dog into nature, do it. Hiking trails provide a different experience for our dogs. One where they have to engage with and pay attention to their environment. They have to navigate where they put their feet, deal with different terrains and they have opportunities to let their noses run wild. This is an awesome way for reactive dogs to de-stress. It’s not the same old boring pavement, where the only thing to do is focus on the many triggers that are constantly whizzing by. Just make sure you allow them to engage with the environment to get the most benefit. (Keep your dog leashed for safety when exploring nature).
  3. Swimming – If your dog likes to swim, this can be an amazing outlet for them. It works different muscles in the body than those exercised while walking or running. The experience of swimming is different than the things they experience daily, which gets the brain working, and it’s a great way for them to relieve stress quickly and safely. Just make sure before any swimming, you warm your dog up, and be sure not to overdo it. Here’s an article for water safety if you plan to swim your dog. And if you throw toys for your dog to fetch in the water, try working in some control or brain work between reps for maximum benefit.
  4. The treadmill – While I don’t like treadmills for pure physical exhaustion, if you don’t have access to hiking trails or a pool/lake/the ocean, a treadmill can help. But rather than running your dog ragged, set the speed mind-numbingly slow and teach your dog to walk for an extended period. This is a great way to get them to de-stress and tone it down while giving them an outlet for physical exercise. Couple this with some fun nosework games around the yard, and you’ll have a fulfilled dog in no time.

If you are suffering with a reactive dog, here are some activities to avoid:

  1. Ball play – I’m not telling you to ditch your dog’s favorite ball for good. But I am telling you that using ball play as a way to exercise your dog isn’t going to do you any favors. Not only can it promote a bit of obsessiveness, but it can also cause injury if you aren’t careful (I’ve seen many a ball crazy dog tear their cruciate ligament playing fetch). If you want to play ball with your dog, mix it up. Don’t throw the ball 20 times in a row to totally exhaust your dog. Instead, make them do something – lay down for example. Toss the ball and release them to get it. Break up ball play sessions with training, self-control exercises, tug play or personal play so that the dog has to engage their brain and so that the behavior doesn’t become completely impulsive.
  2. WalksReactive dog trainer, Meagan Karnes walks Weimaraner on leash.Walking in your neighborhood, and battling reactivity is going to make matters worse. If you live somewhere that doesn’t afford you the ability to walk without bumping into the things that trigger your dog’s outbursts, it’s time to find a new place to exercise. Every time your dog has a reactive response, it pushes the needle backward a bit on your progress. So it’s important that you find outlets for your dog where they can be successful as you work to overcome your struggles with reactivity.
  3. The Dog Park – If you have a dog with reactivity that only pops up when your dog is on lead, but they LOVE other dogs when off lead, and you think taking them to the park for a little knock-down-drag-out wrestle mania with their buddies is a great way to tire them out, think again. A LOT of reactivity stems from simple over-excitement. And if your dog’s only source of exercise is rough and tumble play with others, their excitement when they see their friends is only going to grow. Not to mention, there are many more productive and safer outlets for your dog’s energy.

Listen, exhausting your dog isn’t going to change anything for you. It might lessen the reactivity when your dog is tired, but it’s not going to magically translate to the times when they are full of energy. And tiring them out with games and play that can lead to obsessive behaviors or overexcitement around other dogs isn’t going to help either.

Instead, get productive with your exercise options. Let your dog use their nose. Work training, thoughtfulness, and self-control into your daily routine and into your dog’s exercise and play sessions. And quit beating yourself up for not taking your dog for a walk. Because sometimes that walk can do more harm than good.

Note: You know your dog best. Be sure to choose activities you feel are safe and take all necessary precautions when managing things like reactivity. Always observe leash laws and if you feel your dog is aggressive in the least, or poses a risk to other dogs or people, always keep them leashed and at a safe distance away.

Meagan Karnes
Meagan Karnes

Meagan has been training dogs professionally since 2002, most recently working with private security, military and law enforcement to provide K9s for high level applications. She owns both The Collared Scholar, an online dog training academy, and 690 Security Services, a company that trains and deploys Executive Security and Protection K9s to private customers. She recently partnered with both Average Frog and SM Leaders, who repurpose the proven performance principles of the Navy SEALs for individuals and organizations.

    60 replies to "Don’t Walk the Dog: Why walking your reactive dog might be making things worse"

    • Heather Rolland

      Before recommending off leash hiking in public places, maybe we should be on the same page as to just what “reactive” means. If I’m out hiking with some of my dogs, and I come across a reactive dog off leash, what should I expect? On the surface, that doesn’t sound good to me – I only take my non-reactive and obedient dogs off leash in public.

      I have a super duper reactive dog, but I’m not sure he’s what you mean by reactive. He will lunge at me barking and snarling if I do things he finds unusual or frightening, for example opening a jar or juicing a lemon. he also turned on a packmate because the hot water heater turned on and that made a sudden sound. He has pretty severe issues with resource guarding but also general fearfulness (like the jar lids or lemons). the idea that I would leash him up and take him for a walk in town… well, we’re years away from considering that. I’d like to just get through a day without being barked at for activities of daily living. I think of him as reactive, but I’m not sure that’s what you mean.

      • Meagan Karnes

        I never recommended off leash hiking. The recommendation was to change environments for a more enriching experience for the dog without flooding by the countless triggers that pop up in a traditional urban environment. P.S. I just edited the text of the article to ensure there was no further confusion about what I originally wrote 🙂

        • Anna

          It is great with the edit, I thought the same thing… “but what if we do meat another dog”… assuming you meant off leash. Great article btw 🙂

          I have two reactive dogs (reactive to stranger dogs), and while we do still walk them, I’ve arrived on the same conclusion about walks from the same initial assumptions as you. I also in hindsight would have never taken my dogs to the local (fully fenced) dog parks, where we took our dogs when we first moved here to “keep them socialised”. That was of course before they became reactive, and I think some of the experiences they had their (with rude, pushy, poorly supervised dogs) contributed to the development of reactivity.

          My neighbourhood and the wider area around here is suburban, with nearby rural & bush regions. The neighbourhood itself is very dog-reactive, with plenty of barrier aggression. We don’t meet other dogs being walked on most walks, and our dogs have learned to pass by the known barrier aggression “hot spots” without outbursts, but they do tense up. I walk the dogs one at the time, and they are only walked together when my husband and I walk them together. Their responses/reactivity has improved over time, and so has our handling. We avoid outbursts when we do encounter other dogs, by keeping enough distance (doesn’t work if the approaching dog is off leash tho’…), and distracting/redirecting with treats (doesn’t work if the stranger dog comes too close, or behave frantically aggressively).

          One of my dogs loves her walkies, and will pester if she doesn’t get out, and she gets a lot of training on her walkies because she loves it, so I’ve kept the walking habit. However, she is very vigilant on the walks, and I have noticed that both dogs seem more relaxed if for some reason their walks have been skipped for some days. I suspect that even though they rarely have outbursts these days, the regular “tensing up” due to encountering or looking out for triggers keeps the stress hormone level high

      • Kari Jost

        I am glad to see I’m not the only one who has a dog that barks at everyday things.
        Papers being tapped on a table, childrens voices, chopping vegatables…the list is long.

    • Connie Kaplan

      Hi Meagan, I appreciated this post a lot. I have been trying to figure out whether what I am doing for my friends dogs is right. My friend was diagnosed with cancer 5 months ago, chemo, radiation and surgery. She now needs a stem cell transplant. She has 2 rescue GSD, 1 of them is a dog reactive, barking, lunging mess. I have been taking them for walks once or twice a week for the last 5 months. Most of the time I am the only 1 taking them out. I have a short couple of blocks and then down a canyon, a half hr walk. Sometimes we do encounter another dog and it is a problem. I feel like these are their only outings. I got them on a treadmill and the one who isn’t reactive would run on it if someone would stay with her. The reactive one seems to be not able to learn it and I worked a lot many, many times without compulsion. I appreciate the other ideas and may try some nosework stuff with them. I’m a little out of my league with these dogs. I do a variety of sports with a good temperament Standard Poodle.

    • Jeff Gomberg

      Right, but what does a dog (1) actually do, specifically, that qualifies its behavior as reactive; (2) what triggers it’s reactive behavior; and (3) assuming most all dogs are reactive in some form or fashion, where is the the line crossed between acceptable reactive behaviors and unacceptable reactive behaviors?

      • Meagan Karnes

        It’s the interesting thing. Reactive means so many things, to so many people. I teach reactivity workshops and no two people have the same definition. I think the point was, that if the dog is having regular reactive outbursts on walks, to find a new way where the dog can get exercise without the outbursts. 🙂

    • tracey oliveto

      wow — you are not clued in to what reactivity is and how to deal with it. just don’t walk the dog? wow. unbelievable for an experienced and “official” trainer. It sounds like your answer is to avoid all situations that your dog can react to — is that even possible?? unless you keep him isolated? wow. Your ideas do not serve any of us.

      • Meagan Karnes

        Thanks for your feedback. Looks like we simply have a difference of opinion and that’s the awesome thing about dog training. There are so many different ways to get to an end goal 🙂 In fact, I worked exclusively rehabilitating reactive dogs for many years so I’d consider myself well versed. And yes, I absolutely find that putting your dogs in situations where they are often reactive often does more harm than good. Especially if the handler doesn’t know how to deal with reactivity. I’d much rather they give their dog a more effective outlet for their physical and mental stimulation as they work to solve the problem.

        • MB

          i worked my reactive dog with very experience trainers for 2 years. I did everything possible with no success. So reading this article it seems like that your approach sounds right. Having a dog react on a walk or situations just creates chaos in his head and it takes a long time to make him relax again. I just wish i would have read this sooner.

          • CM

            I have also worked for about a year and a half with a professional trainer on trying to desensitize my dog to these kinds of situations. Specifically, my dog is reactive to other animals and people. She lunges at them, growls/barks aggressively, and starts trembling. I gave up on training because she just wasn’t improving like I had hoped and I don’t think it made the experience any better for her. We have a fenced in yard and she loves to run around and play with us. The vet said she is really healthy and has a ton of muscle so I know she is getting the exercise she needs but people do judge me for not walking her still. I talked to the vet about her issues and she said that every dog is different and sometimes it just comes down to their personality. She is not aggressive when she has a proper introduction (gets close enough to give them a sniff off leash) but obviously I can’t do that on walks. Thanks for giving a different perspective. Definitely going to have to try out some nose work with her!!

            • Jasmine

              If your dog trusts you, you are calm and confident and consistent and you have your dog next to you where he feels THE SAFEST not in front to experience the scariness alone then it should not take 1.5 years. You are not doing one of those things and being stuck in the yard (with muscles) does nothing but isolate and feel more frustration. You need to learn to walk your dog or pay a dog Waller to do it.

      • Auntie

        The point of the article wasn’t “don’t walk the dog”. The point was “don’t walk the dog in places that cause it stress”. Spot on. Think of a situation that causes you a LOT of stress. Now imagine having to face it every day, multiple times a day. That’s what we do to our dogs when we take them on walks in places where triggers are at every turn. Stress hormones take approximately 72 hours to a normal level. Repeated exposure to a stressor results in a dog that can’t completely relax. That’s not healthy. So what do we do? Exactly what she said in the article. Find other ways to provide mental and physical outlet for the dog in ways that allow it to decompress.

        • Heather

          Yes! I have a reactive dog, and we find very quiet places to walk, at times of day that it is very unlikely we will see another person and, more importantly, another dog. A lot of people have tried to tell me he needs to “socialize”. I don’t think so. He is sort of interested in some dogs, but for the most part he has zero idea how to appropriately engage with other dogs, and it’s been that way since he was a pup. He is SO much happier just living in a bubble as much as possible. We have plenty we can’t control that we need to navigate without intentionally encountering stressors.

      • Jos lambley

        That’s a bit of a rude response. I have a reactive dog. Reactive on lead that is. I don’t take him on walks where I will meet other dogs, I don’t want him on the ceiling all the time. Each time I take him out his reactive levels rise, I take him home and they go down at bit. What happens then? I take him out again…up they go. I have done extensive training with him. Lots of different types. I have come across Megan’s method before Jan Fennell dog listener? I’m going to give it another shot I think. I do training in the garden before we go out, which helps to focus him on me, I think that’s the key. I’m no expert, but I can see the logic. What works for one doesn’t necessarily work for others. I keep an open mind and use the bits from any methods to see what works best for us.

      • Laura

        Please reread…she said try other forms of exercise besides the walk. Also she mentioned that tiring your dog on a walk won’t stop the reactivity. Dogs need mental, physical, and emotional stimulation to be well rounded. A well rounded dog will be less reactive. Point is you have to work with your dog! Hope this helps!

      • Jasmine

        I completely agree. And I have a feeling that that Belgian in her picture is her dog. And that dog IN FACT needs a job. No one told you to walk your dog and do nothing and let him react, what we need from you, as an owner of a large breed, working and SOCIAL animal is to train him or her to not react and trust you in all and any situations. Yes it takes work, but it’s actually quite simple, if you can learn to be incredibly calm in triggering situations, that will change the behavior quickly, but humans don’t change faster than dogs. So basically you have given up on your dog and avoid all things hard. Reactive is not what you have, you actually might have that if your dogs never been trained to behave in public. But assuming your dog was socialized, you are mentally stable and he isn’t aggressive just reactive then get out in your street, with a lead or halti, and bond and train your dog – otherwise get a cat if you don’t wana out in the work. If done CONFIDENTLY, gently and correctly, you SHOULD not have a horrible same experience every time you walk your dog, you should see slight improvement every day. All dogs react to everything until we tell them not to with our energy, body then words! You could hire a trainer too! Dogs love reed mild dogs love fetch dogs love people and dogs love other dogs, make sure you aren’t adding a certain energy to change those facts.

    • Joyce

      I got my dog with the express purpose of a walking/hiking companion. I used to take him hiking with me to avoid other dogs but noticed that taking him out in nature just escalated his excitement and behavior got worse, especially if another dog was near. He is a screamer so that affects where we go as well. People stop and stare or gather to watch me and the dog. It feels unsafe to me! He is spinning/pulling and screaming to deal with his energy, I am trying to remain calm and either walk on or do obedience sit/downs and keep an eye on other people who are staring at us. I know they think I am hurting him but I am not! We actually just go home to avoid well intentioned helpers. You don’t know what it’s like until you have a dog like this! After 18 months, I can usually walk around the block. Not the grand hiking companion I envisioned but we meet the dog where he is.

      • Meagan Karnes

        So sorry you are dealing with this. It can be so frustrating. I had a reactive dog myself and it was incredibly stressful so I definitely feel your pain.

    • Sandra Duncan

      Thanks for the article. Shame you are not UK based

    • Sue

      Love the article! Have 2 rescues that are totally opposite. One is shy, great on a walk. The other, is very dog reactive. He’s only 17lbs but acts like he is 100! He actually goes after the other when walking if another dog is near. Is there any way to break that behavior? We end up carrying him just to get past the situation.

      • Meagan Karnes

        It is very common, and very fixable. Check out the link for the reactivity workshop at the end of the article or consult an in person professional. Getting help from a pro is the best way to solve this issue 🙂

    • MB

      I just had to rehome my GSD. She was reactive towards people and dogs. With people she got better but dogs were a disaster. I walked her often and in IPO we trained her to stay calm with other dogs what started to work but not at home and real live. She started showing aggression in her kennel, that she liked before had no problems. and it got worse within month. I worked with trainers on this particlular isssue from day 1 . her aggression became so bad that she charged me my husband older dog and she even bit me. at the end she was getting more and more restless and impossible to get her in and out of her kennel (42 inch wire crate). She was obsessed with her ball and frisbee.Do you think that all this aggression could come from her reactivity and expressing like this. being frustrated. It broke my heart

      • Michelle Cahill

        We had a dog like this – vet told us to put him down at 11 months. He was a time bomb for a serious bite.

    • Peggy Duezabou

      If your dog is reactive–however you define it–you know it when you see it. Why would you allow your dog to continue its reactive/bad behavior? Why would you let it practice unacceptable behavior. I think the author is suggesting ways to break that cycle of reactivity. Dog owners will have to experiment to short circuit their dogs’ bad habits. Thanks for a good read.

    • Shari

      just adopted a dog 2 weeks ago. I appreciate your thoughts here; not sure about how my dog compares, but I do notice that he does better when I take him to the nearby bush and trails, less people and dogs, than thru the neighborhood. He loves people, is curious about dogs, but have not socialized him as he is going thru his shots. He also still needs to be neutered, so I hope that calms him a bit. Walks with him are not as challenging as when we are home and he gets restless and wants attention; he will get in your personal space and mouth/nibble and go after our feet and hands. We give him an alternate toy, say NO, and if he persists, we walk away and ignore him (take away his playmate), then when he is calm, we praise him and give him attention. A game we tried yesterday, cuz it is so hot outside, was to have one person at top of stairs and one at the bottom, calling him, back and forth, getting him to sit sometimes, and rewarding with treats of praise. It seemed to wear him out enough!

    • Robin

      I think if you are a dog trainer, much impulse control can be built up with ball type training and having the dog have a job. My reactive dog is a lot less reactive, a lot more happy, more confident, and much more manageable. It hasn’t been fast or easy. I do go into distractions very slowly as far as increasing them now. My newest reactive dog is also from working lines and has a very high drive. We had a traumatic incident early on with her as a puppy.

    • Corey

      Thanks for the great article. We have our reactive boy in nosework, lure coursing and hope to start dock diving soon. Safe sports for them where all non competing dogs are on leash. They’re a challenge for sure. We’ve done plenty of BAT work with minimal results. But we’re learning what makes him happy and working with that

    • Yvonne

      It sounds logical. I’ve tried all kinds of things to make walks nicer, without my dog going crazy when encountering other dogs, nothing helps. I don’t walk her that much anymore, since we have a backyard.
      Unfortunately she barks at the fence when someone walks or bikes by, or the trashtruck comes around … don’t know what to do about that. Same when the doorbell rings … it’s a mad House 🙁 … besides that she’s a great family dog.

    • Ellen

      Hi – you’ve never addressed how to work on the reactivty. If my reactive dog comes across another dog on a hike, has that now ruined those trips?

      The problem with people taking bits and pieces of Cesar Millan’s philosophy is the exaggeration of that piece. He’s never run a dog ragged on a treadmill, and that piece is part of a larger exercise/discipline/affection program, discipline being the mental stimulation, rules, boundaries, and working on those reactivity issues through leadership and guidance. A means to an end goal, not just eluding the problem forever.

      Your suggestions are great, but most folks want to eventually be able to walk their dogs anywhere. I’d suggest working a tug around a trigger, but that’s a conversation for another day 😊

      • Lea Ann

        Not every dog is willing to do tug work. She has an online course for the details about working on the reactivity.

    • Judy Quaintance

      I just adopted a 1-2 year old Boxer mix male neutered dog reactive and separation anxiety. Hard to get focus. So used to using voice I feel frustrated. Gentle Leader helps and medication is slowly working. I have had him for a month. An ideas would be great. I have taught training for years but never a deaf dog.

      • Linda mcf

        my trainer is replacing the clicker with a flash light so when good click the light and treat

    • Dana

      Great food for thought! Always looking for new ways to approach the subject. Thank you!

    • Stacy Greer

      As a trainer who works with reactive dogs this post is nothing short of spot-on and amazing. I’m sharing it all over! Thank you Meagan! People don’t realize you have to work them under threshold and not in in the environment with triggers. We work up to that point, not avoid it for life! Thank you for your wonderful words. Keep on keepin’ on!

    • Linda mcf

      my trainer is replacing the clicker with a flash light so when good click the light and treat

    • Robert Torres

      Hello Meagan,

      I really look forward to taking this course. I have a 1.5 year old female GSD and we live in the suburbs. We don’t have a yard (live in an apt) and even the activity of taking her out potty has become next to impossible with her reactivity. I hope to find some tools to equip me better to help her work through her issues. I do take her 3x a week to doggy day care where she can play with other dogs, can this be actually doing a disservice to her?

      • Meagan Karnes

        Hey Robert. It’s possible – yes, that doggy daycare isn’t helping your situation. You and she would be better served to find other forms of exercise if possible that focus on getting her brain working, and where you can teach and reinforce impulse control 🙂

    • Fae

      My 11 yo Bichon has always been non-reactive to almost everything., including thunder! When lease walking, if a squirrel, dog, or other animal is nearby, he never reacts., doesn’t even appear to notice. If it’s a dog sometimes he will wag his tail but that’s it.
      Is he an introvert?
      In our yard, off leash, he will chase the wild turkeys.

      As a side note, When he was a puppy, we were out walking on a pretty clear fall day when suddenly there was a huge clap of thunder. He looked at me and I smiled and exclaimed, in a sing-song voice, “Pretty!” After that Everytime I heard thunder I would repeat the same phrase and smile. He’s never been afraid of storms or thunder. Not sure if it’s a coincidence, but I love storms too.

      • Jasmine

        You are calm, and confident, that’s why your dog doesn’t react. If your heart rate doesn’t react, neither will your dog! Good work on continually living in the now 🙂

    • Lisa

      I have a dog that is reactive to noises like trash trucks. Loves other dogs. Does your article work for this type of reactivity?

      • Casey Wood

        If reactivity is rehearsed and not addressed on daily walks, it’s best to suspend the walks and find other outlets for mental and physical exercise until you have a strategy in place to work through the reactivity you are experiencing

    • Sherry W

      I do walk my pups on weekdays (weekends are lots of backyard play so I can sleep in, lol) but we walk at 5 am to make sure the walk is stress-free for all of us. Both my girls love their walks but we also use them for training (can’t leave the house without sitting calmly, can’t reenter the house without a sit-stay, etc). That said, we have occasionally run into a dog or two, but I’m (finally) learning how to keep my reactive pup under threshold while still rewarding her for seeing a dog. It’s been a bit of a struggle but we are getting there. It requires me to be very alert to our environment so I can set her up for success. I find it a very fine line to expose her for counter-conditioning while keeping her calm enough to learn self-management…

      • Jasmine

        This is my absolute favorite response! If people could just be calm and confident, they’d fix 70 percent of the problems, get a trainer for the last 30 percent!

    • Danna Zoltner

      …my guilt runneth over! I have never had a reactive dog and have been working with a trainer to “settle Daisy down”. Reading the comments, Daisy Duke is so much less reactive than she could be. She has never been aggressive toward people and is not aggressive with all dogs.

      My trainer sent me this link in response to my query about what the future might hold for me and my dog. Unfortunately, I’m beginning to see that I’m going to have to find another home for her, since I will not be able to totally meet her needs. At 70, I don’t have the energy or size to stay on top of the reactivity. It helps to know that there are people out there who might be a “fit” for my dog. This information was helpful. While I’m looking for a home, I’m going to work on “nose games” with her and limit the, stressful for us both, walking. Thanks

    • Tania Bowden

      I understood what you were saying and I agree with you totally. I haven’t heard of you before but I shall be keeping a look out.

    • Jenny P

      My 8 yr old dog has become reactive when off lead, particularly with labradoodles and some other scruffy dogs. I tried muzzling her but she still confronted dogs so now we have no off lead walks. I went to some training classes with Ingrid and she is learning to ignore other dogs when on a lead, successfully. If an off lead dog comes up to her when she is on a lead in an on lead area and the owner does not call their dog off, I have to let mine go so I don,t get pulled over. It has been suggested that I carry a water spray bottle with me.

    • Munchi Lok

      I have my super sensitive anxious frustrating people aggressive reactive pit for more than 2 years and none of all any natural base calm medicine works to relax her with triggers. Living in NYC is a sad sad environment for her to live with and recently I have no choice but to trying her on Prozac which is not yet in full effective in order to relax her a bit for the counter condition, sit and look at me
      kind of training otherwise she’ll put herself in very dangerous outcome lunging at someone too close. I already brought her up to very limited natural resources in my neighborhood to let her do tracking and sniffing anything she enjoys being herself avoiding the rush hours but people just pops up at every corners any min in the big city. I 100% agree your advice and will cut down her walks to stop her anxious level goes any higher. It’s really sad to make a dog to cope with the human world when it’s not fit into their temperament. Any advice you think I can help my girl? Thanks

      • Jasmine

        So you got a dog (pit) with no yard, that doesn’t do well in a stressful and crowded city? Doesn’t seem like a good fit, instead of putting him on meds you could move to a more accommodating home or let him be with a family that has a novice owner to walk him in crowds, a yard to train and the patience! Why did you get a job if he’s going to be muzzled, indoors or on Prozac. Breaks my hear! People need to stop buying dogs WHEN THEY DO NOT HAVE THE TRAINing POWER, energy, environment and socialization resources! It is so extremely selfish, dogs do not ask to live with us, we live with them. If you aren’t equipped to successfully walk your dog an hour a day, don’t have the energy to run and play with your dog, don’t have patience to lay down rules and boundaries and don’t have the TIME then do not get a dog! People get a dog, oh dogs are a lot of work, I SHALL CALL HIM REACTIVEV(often misused) and CHECK OUT.

    • Rosie

      Thank you for this. I do scentwork most days in the garden with my girls. My reactive girl can be a nightmare. I find tbe best times to walk are early morning or very late at night and I try to avoid day walks. She has a lot of energy and I am constantly trying to occupy her in some way with training/treats/games. You are completely right about walks. I try my best to make sure she does not react om her walk through distraction and avoidance and being very calm. If she doesn’t react the entire walk I know my hard work had paid off and she will actually be calmer that day. We have a day off walking every week where we do lots of mind games and some playing in the garden. My first dog is mildly reactive but my real reactive is such a challenge. It is so stressful however she had taught me so much and I love her.

    • Dianne

      What an awesome article! I’ve had reactive dogs and walking around the neighbourhood was simply out of the question. I took them out where I knew there was little to non of the things that aroused them to the state of no return. I did that mostly for me anything else was too stressful. Now I understand that is was probably just as stressful for them as it was for me. Our quiet walks were good for both of us.

      • shelley benac

        Spot on, you read my mind on what to say. Yes great article, wish I had read this before I paid enough to send her to college for a year lol

    • Meg

      This article just lifted a huge weight off of my shoulders! My reactive (yet very socially driven) dog has horrible reactions to bikes, to the point that I’m afraid she will scare the biker enough to make him or her fall off the bike. People have given me all sorts of tips, some work better than others, but after a stressful walk, both she and I are mentally exhausted. If I time the walk right, or if it’s too cold for bikes, she’s fine. We have a fenced yard, so we will focus on play in the yard instead, and we will both be happier. Thank you again! I love my girl, and hate to see her that stressed!

    • Pam

      Is it ok to Muzzle a reactive dog? My boy seems to be dog reactive but only selectively. Unfixed males, any kind of doodle or Golden, and Pugs are a big one. So now I’ve started Muzzling him with a Baskerville muzzle. He plays well with the “Potcake” female dog at my new place. But does not get along with the unfixed “husky”. Diesel is a fixed Great Dane mix. Hes 3 if there is a way I could train this out of him I would love some tips.

    • sian

      i have sibling great danes now 2 and a half…they have always been reactive..ive had trainers and tried walking everyday….I now do all training..play at home with sensing work too.They are much happier.my only fear is if anything was wrong with them how do i take them to the vets!!!

      • Meagan Karnes

        I think the idea of “not walking the dog” is really a statement of “don’t walk the dog until you’re ready”. But at some point, you’ll need to take your training into the world and practice generalizing in new environments. Start with easy environments in the beginning – I like store, school or church parking lots outside of business hours – and keep your sessions short. And I’d recommend working with one dog at a time to make things easier on everyone 🙂

    • KETB

      Thanks for all of this. We have a reactive, 3-year-old Great Dane whose triggers are any other dog, leashes or unleashed, and the occasional stranger who surprises us by coming up behind or popping out from around a corner. We live in the city and have a small backyard. He won’t poop in our backyard, so we have to walk him twice a day. We’ve tried to retrain him to poop in our backyard, but he’s stubborn. He is not treat motivated when faced with a trigger. He will choose the trigger even when a hotdog treat is in his face. He has pulled me down a few times trying to get to another dog. He doesn’t attack, thank god, but we know that it’s just a matter of time before he gets escalated to that. He’s a sweet boy otherwise: no guarding issues, loves to flop down for tummy rubs, and loves attention. We cannot afford massive training fees, so thanks for all of this great advice. It is truly a struggle, and we have to walk him late at night and in the early morning to let him poop. It’s very stressful and exhausting, as well as anxiety-producing. I have to walk with a spray bottle of water scented with a bit of vinegar in it. He’s been conditioned to dislike the vinegar smell and I use the word “Vinegar” to control him. We are working on keeping potential triggers out of his proximity limit, but that’s hard in a city teeming with dogs! Sometimes, we get caught with nowhere to turn and have to hide in someone’s driveway or behind bushes or parked cars until another dog walker passes by. We often have to cross-cross the street in one block or make abrupt reverse-faces, just to avoid other walkers. My head is constantly on swivel, and I have to stay in hyper-vigilant mode at all times. We try to go to fenced-in parks late at night so he can have some off-leash time. It’s miserable. Any advice beyond what’s posted here would be greatly appreciated!

      • Jasmine

        You can’t put a hot dog in front of a reactive dogs face, you put the hot dog in front of his face when he WARNS you he is going to react, nose up, ears perked, stiff body, slowly wagging tail. Your dog tells you he’s bout to have trouble but are you listening. You have to redirect, distract and reward… you can’t wait until after you feel a tug on leash, you should be showing the hot dog while he’s still in heel with a loose leash telling you (hey mom there’s a dog up there that makes me nervous) crest space, keep him close to feel safe, show hot dog, capture smell, move latterly a few steps, ask for a sit and eye contact give hot dog slowly and calmly. BUT I wikk tell you this, humans take longer to change than dogs so if your heart rate goes up even slightly when you see his triggers, cus you are still living in the past, then he will never change. You got to learn how to be calm, meditate, therapy, calming exercises, you have to train your body to not react first before you can teach your dog. You can practice without your dog with friends or partner, and then once you mastered walking by a dog or person without feeling nervous (throw out all past experiences) LIVE IN THE NOW! You got this, it’s hard work but don’t give up, more of the focus is on the human, dog will follow! Don’t get frustrated that’s the worst thing uou can do.

    • bcr

      We have a Golden Pyrenees rescued from a shelter who arrived to us at 6 months of age. He had reactivity issues from the time we got him home and I can’t say how spot on this article is. We got numerous trainers to help us and we heard the exact same thing: Tire him out, get him playing fetch, distract him with high-value treats. All we did was make our dog more stressed and so life was not going good together and we had no bond.

      About 3 months ago we found a behaviourist who taught us to communicate with our dog, in particular watching for his ‘Calming Signals’. We threw out everything we were doing… replaced it with helping him find his calm and enriching his life with puzzles and nosework. We also attend ‘social walks’ with other dogs who see the same behaviourist. All you need is a long leash, a harness and lots of patience. We are there to help our dog learn to make better choices. In the last 4 months we see a huge change. Yes he is still reactive, but the outbursts don’t last as long, and he gets over it quicker. Sometime he even chooses to turn around and put himself out of the situation. It’s long road but it works… and we have a great relationship now.

      Our special boy needs to be out walking to use the bathroom, he refuses to use the yard. We do our best to avoid situations where he will react, but they can and do still happen. We are there to support him, apologise to those walking by until he can let go. Some folks still give us a hard time, but it is making a real difference in his outlook on life. All dogs deserve a chance to change and have a loving home.

    • Pamala Mac

      Reactivity…or is it something else?
      Dominance issues? Or is it FEAR BASED?
      Sometimes, it is BOTH.

      I work with behavioral dogs. My approach us a little different and it takes alot longer. I focus on the human-dog bond, and consistently meeting the dog(s) basic needs. Feeding, care, touching, remaining calm and assertive and predictable. We have dogs that come from unknown, abused, neglected…even feral streetdog backgrounds.
      The primal need for survival skills needs to be shut OFF first. Access to food, safe resting place, cues from a stable pack member…all help reform reactivity (which is aggression/excitability directed externally toward a stressor) .
      We sometimes muzzle reactive dogs while they learn to interact with people and dogs….to allow “flooding “ on the sensory level. Yes, it is very stressful at first, but, when the experience is complete, and there is no harm, no dog fight, no allowance for fleeing, it is controlled confrontation with complete reliance upon the dog’s handler for its safety. It changes the bond and perspective of the dog…it can reset the internal dialogue of the dog.
      “My owner is safe. He can protect me. I can relax. I do not have to protect her.”
      “ my owner is calm and I sense no fear from them, therefore, I will remain or return to a secure state. I can be reassured”

      Dogs LOOK TO HUMANS for guidance, and building the bond is key. We have PTSD dogs. They DO have memories to overcome, they CAN BE TRIGGERED.
      We have a couple here that are unlikely to ever be predictable “pets” but they are happiest being allowed to interact with us by their own choosing. In this regard, they are like cats in behavior. We accept those limits, as long as the interactions are appropriate. Teeth baring, demanding, pushy , growling, excited barking behaviors are corrected immediately. We do not allow rude! We are friends, but with manners are required. The humans must remain assertive and confident and CONSISTENT.

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